You’ve seen the guy for a couple of times and you’d like to get to know him a bit better? Some flirting won’t hurt, now would it? If you either have him on Facebook or have his phone number, it’s time for some action!
Here are a few conversations ideas to start off the conversation and drop a small hint that you might be interested:
Introductions can really be great starters. Introduce yourself in a witty manner so that you are able to get his attention. Try not to choose some cheesy pick-up lines; it almost looks desperate on girls.
The biggest secret to being a good conversationalist is simply allowing other people to talk about themselves. Why? It’s a subject they probably know well and feel comfortable with.
If you run out of things to say, and you feel there an awkward silence, just call it out by saying: “Isn’t it awkward when you feel like you have nothing to say?”
Simply commenting on an unpleasant or uncomfortable situation that you both experience in your immediate surroundings is another effective strategy for starting a conversation.
If both of you are sitting in a room for a while, this may be the best way to warm things up. Exchange glances now and then, and look away. But don’t be aloof. Be warm and approachable and smile now and then to let him know that you’re interested in talking to him.