You may not know too much or we liked for a long time. In any case we want to make a good impression, so that doubts assail us.
It’s the first thing to be clear when you’ve been with a woman for the first time. You are not trying to get a job (or her), so do not act as such.
I love when I’m in a restaurant and hear a couple who are obviously on their first date and the man has no idea what to say or do.
The conversation goes on this line:
“Do you have brothers or sisters?”
“Where are your parents?”
“What do you enjoy doing in your spare time?”
“What you do in your company?”
Exactly like a job interview and that is exactly what NOT to do. Unless you want to convince her that you’re a nice guy … that would be a good FRIEND.
The truth is no wonder that women complain about the lack of interesting men in this world.
So as a rule of thumb:
Just ask or discuss things typical, boring and predictable, SUCH AS THE SCHOOL, COLLEGE, WORK, FAMILY HAS BEEN IF YOU REALLY ABSOLUTELY NO OTHER OPTION.
Why most men let the conversation precisely these issues quite soporific?
For many men deal with the first appointment with the prospect of “no matter what I do not screw up”
In other words, be safe and not do or say anything that women do not like.
They try to present themselves as “good guys” who love their mother, have a good job and are stable.
Somehow, men have the idea that if they are nice people, pay for dinner and talk about the same hackneyed subjects, could get lucky and get enough points to go to bed / roll with it or at least make a few kisses and the opportunity to invite her to dinner again.
I do not know where does this idea but not a strategy called success.